From Soul-mates to Self-mate: Encountering Projections and Individuation
"All relationships, all relationships begin in projection." -James Hollis Over the past several years I've become dubious of romantic love when I used to be a lover--constantly craving the excitement and butterflies of new love. I spent my time wishing for someone who knew how to love me perfectly, a soul mate whose love would complete me. My other half who felt like my forever home...and I had it. I had an experience that felt like every love song and story I had ever heard.