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Nature & Nurture in the Natal Chart: Cosmic Connections Between Mother and Child

The bonds between mother and child can be powerful and complex one. Astrology offers a unique lens through which we can explore this connection, delving into the celestial energies that may influence this relationship both by nature and nurture in the Natal Chart.

While genetics play a role, astrology acknowledges the vast influence of environment and upbringing. All of our charts reflect our inherent potential--or daemon--and soul unfolding that can be activated at different times bringing about new insights and healing into our connections.

I also believe our soul chooses our parents and that many of our mothers offer deep karmic lessons ripe for healing, another element that makes this exploration so important in our journey. Some markers of this I see include Vertex conjunct rising or Moon in synastry or North or South Node with Vertex or Moon. Other explorations of karmic connections can be found here.

And of course it goes without saying these relationships aren't specific to just birthing people or mother's by birth as there are so many ways to be a mother.


Your Moon & Your Mother

Particularly, the Moon in our charts reveals the relationships we have with our main caregivers--usually our mothers. And for those with children, the Moon in their chart suggests their experience of you.  It shapes how we nurture ourselves and how we seek comfort and security. So, it's no surprise that the Moon sign placement in your birth chart can offer valuable insights into your relationship with your mother.

The Moon also reveals your attachment style, how you form bonds, and the impact of your primary caregiver (often your mother). For parents, the Moon in your child's chart offers a glimpse into their experience of you and your strengths as a nurturing force in their lives. I also often see a correlation with the mother's Sun sign and the child's Moon sign--making this resonance of charts even more obvious.

Here are some patterns I see by Moon sign about your motherly relationship and some emotional edges to explore:

Fire Moon Signs (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius):


  • Possible themes: Independent and strong-willed mothers who instilled a sense of confidence and individuality. The relationship might be passionate and energetic, with occasional flare-ups due to similar strong personalities.

  • Areas for growth:  Learning to express vulnerability and appreciate emotional depth can strengthen the bond.

Earth Moon Signs (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn):

  • Possible themes: Practical and nurturing mothers who emphasized stability and security. The relationship might be grounded and reliable, with unspoken understanding and affection.

  • Areas for growth:  Open communication about emotional needs can deepen the connection and avoid unspoken expectations.

Air Moon Signs (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius):

  • Possible themes: Stimulating and intellectually curious mothers who encouraged open communication and exploration. The relationship might be full of lively conversations and shared interests, with a focus on mental connection.

  • Areas for growth:  Balancing intellectual connection with emotional expression can add depth to the bond.

Water Moon Signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces):

  • Possible themes: Deeply emotional and intuitive mothers who fostered a strong emotional bond. The relationship might be intensely loving and supportive, with a strong intuitive understanding of each other's feelings.

  • Areas for growth:  Setting healthy boundaries and learning to separate emotions can create a more balanced dynamic.


Archetypal Aspects

Another way to find cosmic clues beyond the Moon sign includes exploring the aspects (angles) formed between the Moon and other planets in the Natal chart as well as by synastry. Harmonious aspects like trines and sextiles indicate ease of flow and natural understanding. Challenging aspects like squares and oppositions can create friction, requiring conscious effort to navigate.

Below is a list to think about with your natal chart aspects to your Moon. If you don't know them, might be time for a session:


  • Aspect: Conjunction, Sextile, Trine (Harmonious): You likely share similar values and emotional expressions with your mother, fostering a sense of ease and understanding.

  • Aspect: Square, Opposition (Challenging): There might be contrasting personalities or emotional needs, leading to potential conflict or a feeling of disconnect.


  • Aspect: Conjunction, Sextile, Trine (Harmonious): Communication with your mother likely flows easily, fostering a sense of intellectual connection and shared interests.

  • Aspect: Square, Opposition (Challenging): Communication styles might clash, leading to misunderstandings or difficulty expressing your emotions openly.


  • Aspect: Conjunction, Sextile, Trine (Harmonious): You likely share similar values around love, affection, and beauty, creating a warm and loving bond with your mother.

  • Aspect: Square, Opposition (Challenging): There might be differences in how you express affection or receive love, leading to occasional friction.


Aspect: Conjunction, Sextile, Trine (Harmonious): You share a sense of energy and drive, potentially fostering a strong and supportive bond with your mother.

Aspect: Square, Opposition (Challenging): Power struggles or conflicting energy levels might create tension in the relationship.


Aspect: Conjunction, Sextile, Trine (Harmonious): You likely feel a sense of optimism and abundance with your mother, creating a supportive and nurturing environment.

Aspect: Square, Opposition (Challenging): There might be differing values or expectations, leading to occasional clashes or a feeling of not being fully understood.


Aspect: Conjunction, Sextile, Trine (Harmonious): This aspect suggests a mother who provided structure and discipline, possibly fostering a sense of responsibility and security.

Aspect: Square, Opposition (Challenging): Strictness or emotional distance from your mother might have left you feeling insecure or lacking in emotional support.


Aspect: Conjunction, Sextile, Trine (Harmonious): You likely share a sense of independence and a desire for freedom, fostering a unique and unconventional bond with your mother.

Aspect: Square, Opposition (Challenging): Rebellious tendencies or a need for constant change might create tension in the relationship.


Aspect: Conjunction, Sextile, Trine (Harmonious): This aspect suggests a deeply emotional and intuitive connection with your mother, fostering a strong sense of empathy and understanding.

Aspect: Square, Opposition (Challenging): Idealization or emotional confusion might cloud the relationship, leading to misunderstandings or difficulty setting boundaries.


Aspect: Conjunction, Sextile, Trine (Harmonious): This aspect suggests a transformative and powerful bond with your mother, potentially uncovering hidden depths and fostering personal growth.

Aspect: Square, Opposition (Challenging): Power struggles or manipulation might have created a complex and emotionally charged dynamic with your mother.


House Happenings

Comparing charts and looking at our Natal Chart can also include looking at house placements. Noticing areas of our Natal chart can reveal places we carry ancestral threads carried down from both our parents. Here's what I tend to focus on by house:

  • The Fourth House:  This house represents home, family, and our emotional foundation. Examining both charts in this area reveals how mother and child contribute to the overall family dynamic.

  • The Tenth House:  This house signifies career, authority figures, and public image. Here, we can see how the mother's role might influence the child's aspirations and sense of self.



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